|   As a performative 
        player, we are driven by a primary lack at the core of the psychic apparatus. 
        It compels us to seek fulfillment through the gaze of the other: the elementary 
        fantasmatic scene of being looked at (validated) by an unseen presence. 
        The imagined gaze observing us becomes a kind of ontological guarantee 
        of our being.  
        It serves to put us in our place -- to subject us. In this way, erotic 
        cultures of exposure and display can be seen as driven by the need to 
        perform for the gaze -- the Big Other, the symbolic order -- and therefore 
        to write themselves into existence. Yet at the same time, these insertions 
        of the self into the symbolic order can be regarded as a way of channeling 
        or dissipating surplus energy. From such a viewpoint, the connective intensities 
        that drive these new forms of self-exposure and display are those of expending 
        excess, and the allure of showing could parallel that of sacrificing. 
        The pose, as event-portal, becomes a double-edged solicitor. 
      Jordan Crandall 
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